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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  13:32:51     someone shot me dead please
 
 
 
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        | Elipton Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  13:53:07       
 quote:Originally posted by don_simon3000:
 someone shot me dead please
 
 
 
 Chin up mate.
 
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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:04:08       wot use for? they let you work till you get a burnout, docs do nothing besides administrate the status quo, people are so selfish annoying pricks. at university they don't like me cause i am working class still more intelligent, being in excellent shape as well, still no friends.
 all i feel atm is very frustrated and depressed.
 
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        | wong Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:41:45       Life's a bitch mate
 
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 intensify the treatment
 
 
 
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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:43:14       i just feel as a honest and nice guy i would deserve better.
 
 
 
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        | latininxtc Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:43:19       Oh gawd is this another suicide thread??? Well I'm not gonna make the call this time around!
 
 
 
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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:45:38       well if you always just get put in a corner you will start to think why continue the life that's just normal behavior
 
 
 
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        | Hard2Get Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  14:59:47       Why compromise your own life because of everyone else? **** that. Don't waste your energy on people that aren't worth it anyway, even if that's most people. The only person who is losing out by feeling this way is you. Sounds like you need to live somewhere better.
 
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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  15:25:14       yeh just called that helpline and realized that i need to move to the uk but can't because i am short of money.
 
 
 
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        | Elipton Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  15:49:05       
 quote:Originally posted by don_simon3000:
 
  at university  still more intelligentin excellent shape as well 
 
 
 
 
 
 There you go. Three things you listed yourself that are good.
 You're at university, which is a means to a better future. You're more intelligent which helps at uni and you're healthy. I don't know any tips on how to magically make friends I'm afraid. You've got to put on a brave face and grit your teeth and be nice to people. At the same time, you've got to be selfish. You're at university for yourself, and you'll eventually graduate and compete with these people for jobs. Get your qualification with flying colours, and get the better jobs at their expense.
 
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        | Claxton Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  18:45:00       Exactly what Elipton said. I think you are feeling a bit sorry for yourself when you have every reason to be optimistic about many things.
 
 If you perceive things in a more positive light you are much more likely to be happier. Focus on the positives and work around them. Also, rather than blaming everyone else, perhaps look at what YOU can do to change things you don't like about your life. You are in control!
 
 That might sound a bit blunt and harsh but... and in no way am I trivialising depression, which is a horrible, horrible illness.
 
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        | AceofSpades_Lorenzo Average Member
 
    
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/15 :  19:11:34       From personal experience; go seek professional help in therapy/counseling(whatever you want to call it) on a normal basis. It'll help you keep your head on straight. It's awesome how helpful it is discussing your problems with a professional who understands things. You'll be surprised on how much it'll help.
 
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        | The Dopeman Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/16 :  02:11:39       you think youve got it bad...don't get me started on half the shit i've been through my whole ****ing life if i was to tell you even a small portion of the shit i've had to go through you would realise how ****ing lucky you are hell you're at uni ffs i would KILL to be at uni (really i would)
 
 in the past couple of years i've had to deal with suicidal thoughts, crippling depression major panick attacks (the kind where you legitimately think you're about to die kind of panic attacks) they have been so severe i sometimes can't leave my house for days on end and have literally become a recluse  not to mention living everyday with a mental health problem that dictates everything i do 24hrs a day i lost my aunt and 2 month old nephew in the space of a month and tried to kill myself just before xmas
 
 you think your life sucks give me a ****in break
 
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        | Ken Masters Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/16 :  02:46:00       I suppose the general understanding is to look at the positives in your life & try your best not to focus on the negatives.
 
 You have the power to change your life & grow. Many people aren't so fortunate to be in that position to begin with. There are people out there who dont even get the chance of basic education. With being at Uni the world is yours, grab it & dont waste your chance. Life really is far too short.
 
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     Edited by - Ken Masters on 2015/02/16  02:50:27
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        | Ken Masters Advanced Member
 
      
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/16 :  02:47:43       .
 
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     Edited by - Ken Masters on 2015/02/16  02:49:48
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        | don_simon3000 Senior Member
 
     
  
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 |  Posted - 2015/02/16 :  07:48:54       i have bipolar disorder, i am seeing 2 docs regulary already. today so far i am feeling much better again. i'm also very sensitive to weather changes, during winter depression kicks in, in summer i am on an up, can go weeks with only 5 hours of sleep and feeling amazing.
 
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